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โ€œIโ€™m going to have very clear boundaries with my job, because you have none!โ€ โ€“ ๐—บ๐˜†โ€ฆ

โ€œIโ€™m going to have very clear boundaries with my job, because you have none!โ€ โ€“ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฑ-๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ-๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ

That one stopped me in my tracksโ€ฆ and led to a really interesting conversation about work ethic, ambition, and expectations.

We talked about:

- Wanting more vs. not wanting for anything

- Earning vs. getting

- Reaching vs. settling

- What โ€œbalanceโ€ actually means

I told her the truth:

๐—œโ€™๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ. Iโ€™ve always worked hard, and I love what I do. And I realized young that if I wanted a different kind of life, I was going to have to create it and not wait for it.

But hereโ€™s the part many people struggle with:

You cannot say you want to reach the highest levels of successโ€ฆ

and also insist on the boundaries, limits, and comfort of someone who doesnโ€™t.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜๐˜„๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜.

Going โ€œall inโ€ isnโ€™t required. Itโ€™s not for everyone.

But if you choose a steadier, more balanced pathโ€”thatโ€™s great. Just be comfortable with the results that come with that choice.

Balance your expectations with your effort, or at some point youโ€™ll be disappointedโ€”on one side of the equation or the other.

#Leadership #WorkEthic #Ambition #Parenting #EntrepreneurLife #LessonsFromLife

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